A year-long mentorship journey for individuals and couples who are ready to integrate Heart iQ into the places it matters most: your relationship, your friendships, your family, your life.
Everything you need to make Heart iQ your daily reality.
"This work has been paramount in helping me find this amazing relationship. My experience in Heart iQ helped my nervous system recognise my partner when he showed up."
Sarah London, UK
"As guys, we don't know how to access our emotions. Heart iQ made it safe for me to go there — and it changed everything in my marriage."
Marc California, USA
"I started to dare to be 100% authentic again. I've done years of therapy — nothing touched what Heart iQ reached in just a few weeks."
Mascha Netherlands
Most personal development gives you a peak experience: a weekend, a retreat, a breakthrough moment. But the real work happens when you go home. When the insight meets the argument. When the openness meets the deadline. When the love meets the fear.
The Heart iQ Fellowship is a 12-month mentorship container designed for one purpose: to help you stay open in the places life tries to close you down. Your relationship. Your friendships. Your family. In the moments that matter most, and the ones you have been avoiding.
This isn't another programme to learn about connection. It's a year of living it.
The Problem
Retreats, workshops, and therapy can all create real, lasting change. But without a daily practice, a live community, and consistent mentorship to sustain that growth, the risk is that the old patterns quietly return. The openness closes. The connection drifts. The Fellowship adds a layer of nourishment and protection to your relationship ecosystem that keeps those breakthroughs alive long after the initial experience ends.
The Fellowship
A year-long mentorship container designed to turn breakthroughs into daily lived experience. Four live calls per month. Daily morning practice. A 7-day in-person retreat. Men's and women's circles. Couples coaching. Personal mentoring. Not a programme you complete and move on from, but a living structure that grows with you, so that openness stops being something you reach for and becomes simply how you live.
Whether you're new to Heart iQ or continuing a journey you've already begun, the Fellowship meets you where you are and walks with you for a full year.
You want to build a richer relationship with yourself. More body-connected, emotionally expressive, available in your friendships, content within with more trust and acceptance than ever before, while also open to receive the love you want.
You are committed to each other and you are ready for structured support to stay open in the hard moments, communicate what is really going on, and build a partnership that is rooted in devotion, grows in resourcefulness, and is held within community.
You are craving the kind of friendships where you can actually be yourself. You want a men's or women's circle, a real tribe, and a community that is an integral part of your relationship's ecosystem.
The Fellowship is not a course. It is a living, breathing mentorship container with multiple live touchpoints every single week.
Monthly
A 2-hour online circle with Christian Pankhurst using the Heart iQ circle work modality. This is where we meet what's alive in the moment: presence, truth, collective process. A transpersonal space to put everything you're learning into practice.
Monthly
Guided practice sessions with our most experienced facilitators, rotating through six core themes every six months: hunger for life, sexuality, emotions, nervous system, boundaries, and conflict and repair. Led by the Fellowship faculty team.
Monthly
Dedicated spaces run by the men's team and women's team. Brother-to-brother and sister-to-sister support, gendered Heart iQ circle practice, and a space to explore what it means to build deep, lasting same-sex friendships and trust.
Monthly
A dedicated monthly coaching space for couples in the Fellowship. Structured practice, live coaching, and the tools to keep your partnership growing.
5 Mornings Per Week
Start every day in your body. 20–45 minutes of guided embodiment practice delivered live over Zoom. This is the daily rhythm that makes everything else land. This is the somatic foundation of your year.
Always On
Your always-on home between circles. Connect with fellow members, share reflections, message each other directly, and ask questions of the faculty and Christian, all through the dedicated Heart iQ app. Includes community meetups, curated resources, and a Heart iQ-trained AI assistant to support your practice between sessions.
The Fellowship Immersion
A seven-day residential immersion where everything you've been practising online comes alive in person.
Europe
Dec 7–13, 2026
Netherlands
United States
Apr 5–11, 2027
The Hideaway, Colorado
Accommodation and meals included · No hidden costs
Every month in the Dojo, we go deep on a different relational theme. The cycle repeats twice per year, each time landing differently as you grow. Because you can join anytime, every theme is designed to stand alone.
Theme 01
Reigniting passion, purpose, and the fierce aliveness that gets buried under obligation, stress, and survival mode.
Theme 02
Life force, desire, and the energy that moves between us when we stop shutting down and start staying present.
Theme 03
Developing the confidence to recognise and name your inner world, uncover the wisdom within your emotions, and express yourself in ways that deepen understanding and connection.
Theme 04
Understanding your nervous system patterns, learning to regulate under pressure, and making clear requests from a grounded place.
Theme 05
Learning to say yes and no from a place of fullness, not from shutdown, people-pleasing, or fear of conflict.
Theme 06
Transforming conflict from something to avoid into something that deepens trust. Learning the art of rupture and repair in real time.
"I took away that it can be joyful to work on your stuff. Not heavy. Joyful. I'm taking home a clear and constant heart — and tools to make a good relationship great."
Heart iQ Mastery, September 2014
We live in a culture that celebrates romance but has quietly abandoned friendship. Most adults don't know how to make new friends, how to deepen the ones they have, or how to repair the ones they've lost.
Couples become each other's everything, and then wonder why the pressure becomes unbearable. Singles move from event to event hoping connection will stick, but rarely does.
The Fellowship doesn't just support your partnership. It surrounds you with a tribe. Men learning to show up for men. Women learning to trust women. Couples held by community, not isolated in a sealed dyad.
"At the end of our lives, the research is clear — it's not success we regret losing. It's the friendships we let go of along the way."
The Fellowship actively teaches you how to build and sustain real friendships, not as a side effect, but as a core skill:
"Acceptance that it's okay and safe to embrace all of yourself — that's when my heart smiles."
— Eugene
Every plan includes all core calls, daily morning practice, the Heart iQ Mastery immersion, and the Fellowship Hub.
All core calls, daily practice, and a 7-day live immersion. Everything you need for a full year of relational growth.
Personal Track
€6,000
or €550/month for 12 months
Couples Track
€5,000 per person
€10,000
or €900/month for 12 months
A booking fee applies, fully credited toward your enrolment or refunded.
Everything in the Group Mentoring tier plus dedicated one-to-one coaching with a senior Heart iQ mentor. For couples, both partners receive personal coaching plus dedicated couples coaching.
Personal Track
€10,000
or €900/month for 12 months
Couples Track
Both partners included
€15,000
or €1,350/month for 12 months
A booking fee applies, fully credited toward your enrolment or refunded.
For couples who want the deepest level of support. Direct, private coaching with Christian Pankhurst alongside the full Fellowship experience.
€25,000
or €2,200/month for 12 months
| Personal Track | Couples Track | |
|---|---|---|
| Accelerated Awakening Call (Christian) | ✓ | ✓ |
| Heart iQ Dojo Call (Faculty-Led) | ✓ | ✓ |
| Men's or Women's Call | ✓ | ✓ |
| Group Couples Coaching Call | — | ✓ |
| Daily Morning Practice | ✓ | ✓ |
| Heart iQ Mastery Immersion | ✓ | Both partners included |
| Fellowship Hub & Heart iQ App | ✓ | ✓ |
| Private Coaching (Tier 2) | Up to 20 hours | Up to 30 hours |
| WhatsApp Mentor Access (Tier 2) | ✓ | ✓ |
Book a Discovery Call with Stephanie, our Head Trainer. She will help you find the right fit based on where you are and what would genuinely serve you. No pressure, no hard sell.
A booking fee applies, fully credited toward your enrolment or refunded.
Before I could walk this path with others, I had to walk it myself.
I'm Christian Pankhurst, founder of Heart iQ, and I'll be accompanying you through this journey.
My early life was shaped by intensity and a lack of safety, experiences that later showed up as anxiety, panic, and a deep sense of inner disconnection.
What began as a personal search for relief slowly became a deeper inquiry into what helps us stay open, present, and human in connection, especially when things get challenging.
Over the last 20 years, that inquiry has evolved into Heart iQ: a body-based, relational approach to personal and collective healing that's now practised by individuals, couples, and groups around the world.
The work draws from both Eastern and Western traditions, but its heart is simple: creating spaces where people feel safe enough to be real, and supported enough to open.
I don't see myself as someone who fixes or heals others. My role is to help create the conditions where your own intelligence, capacity, and goodness can emerge.
I'm glad you're here, and I look forward to meeting you in the work.
"Christian Pankhurst knows how to articulate these messages as well as, if not better than I can. He is a profound source of wisdom and depth."
Neale Donald Walsch
New York Times Best-Selling Author of Conversations with God
Alongside Christian, these experienced facilitators bring different gifts, perspectives, and lived wisdom to your year.
Fellowship Architect & Lead Faculty
Designs and leads the Practice Dojo sessions; Co-leads the Monthly Women's Circle Call; Co-facilitates the Monthly Couples Call; and supports those participating in the Couples Mentorship. Her three decades of experience in somatic healing and relational development bring depth, clarity, and embodied wisdom to the programme.
Women's Faculty & Mentor
Co-leads the Monthly Women's Circle Call and provides support for women participating in the Personal Mentorship. Her training in therapeutic breathwork and trauma-informed facilitation supports women in exploring trust with themselves, their bodies, and life itself.
Women's Faculty & Embodiment
Co-leads the Monthly Women's Circle Call and leads Daily Morning Practice embodiment sessions. She is a natural heart-centred guide, supporting somatic healing and embodied transformation within the programme.
Men's Faculty & Mentor
Co-leads the Monthly Men's Circle Call and delivers mentoring for men participating in the Personal Mentorship. His steady, grounded presence supports men in deepening their capacity for honest expression and relational intimacy.
Men's Faculty & Mentor
Co-leads the Monthly Men's Circle Call and provides support for men participating in the Personal Mentorship. He brings a nature-based, somatic perspective to his work with men, integrating vulnerability with strength.
Men's Faculty & Mentor
Co-leads the Monthly Men's Circle Call. He adds clear-hearted leadership and deep care to the men's work and the wider container of the Fellowship and Heart iQ eco-system.
"It took quite some time to reach the place where I can actually feel. This was a confirmation that it hasn't been in vain."
Olle, Sweden
No prior experience is needed. The Heart iQ 90-Day Challenge is included with every Fellowship enrolment, and this is where you will start. It is a complete foundational training in the Heart iQ methodology that prepares you for the full Fellowship experience. The Fellowship meets you where you are.
The Fellowship runs on open enrolment, so you can join anytime. The Fellowship officially begins on 29 June 2026, but anyone who enrols now also receives the Heart iQ 90-Day Challenge (starting 6 April) at no extra cost. That gives you a full three months of guided training before the Fellowship kicks off, so you'll hit the ground running. From the day you enrol you get immediate access to all calls, morning practice, and community.
Three two-hour calls per month for everyone on the Personal Track: the Accelerated Awakening Call with Christian, the Heart iQ Dojo Call with faculty, and your Men's or Women's Call. The Couples Track adds a fourth, the Group Couples Coaching Call. Plus optional daily morning practice five mornings a week on Zoom.
Absolutely. The Personal Track is designed specifically for individuals. You will participate in all calls: the Accelerated Awakening Call, the Heart iQ Dojo Call, and your Men's or Women's Call, plus daily practice and the Heart iQ Mastery immersion. The Couples Track adds the Group Couples Coaching Call and includes both partners in the immersion, but the Personal Track is complete and powerful on its own.
Heart iQ Mastery is a seven-day residential immersion held in Europe (7-13 December 2026, Netherlands) and the US (5-11 April 2027, The Hideaway, Colorado). It includes relational practice, brotherhood and sisterhood work, embodiment, collective circle work, and depth. Accommodation and meals are included. This is where everything you have been practising online comes alive in person.
The Fellowship is about life integration, applying Heart iQ to your relationships, friendships, and daily life. The Academy is the professional training track for people who want to become Heart iQ facilitators. They run in parallel, not sequentially, and serve different purposes. Some people do both.
Tier 2 (Group Mentoring + Private Coaching) includes up to 20 hours of one-to-one coaching across the year on the Personal Track, guided by your mentor to support your growth and integration. On the Couples Track, you receive up to 30 hours of private coaching across the year, guided by your mentor to support your growth and integration as a couple. Both tracks include WhatsApp access to your mentor between sessions. The Private Fellowship with Christian (Tier 3) includes direct coaching from Christian himself, and places are by invitation only.
That is exactly what the Discovery Call is for. You will speak with Stephanie, our Head Trainer, who knows the programme intimately. She will help you find the right fit based on where you are, what you need, and what feels like the right stretch. No pressure, no hard sell.
Yes. Every plan offers a 12-month payment option. The Fellowship (Personal) is €6,000 or €550/month. The Fellowship (Couples) is €10,000 or €900/month. Fellowship + Mentoring (Personal) is €10,000 or €900/month. Fellowship + Mentoring (Couples) is €15,000 or €1,350/month. The Private Fellowship with Christian is €25,000 or €2,200/month. Paying in full saves between €600 and €1,400 depending on the plan.
Every call is recorded and available in the Heart iQ app within 24 hours. You can watch in your own time and still post reflections in the community. The daily morning practice runs five mornings a week on Zoom, so there's always a way to stay connected even in a busy week.
No. Heart iQ is relational growth work. It is about building emotional capacity, deepening intimacy, and practising presence in real relationships. It complements therapeutic work beautifully, but it's not a clinical programme and doesn't replace professional mental health support.
On the Personal Track, there are three two-hour calls per month: the Accelerated Awakening Call, the Heart iQ Dojo Call, and your Men's or Women's Call. That is six hours per month. On the Couples Track, you add a fourth call, the Group Couples Coaching Call, bringing the total to eight hours per month. Daily morning practice (20 to 30 minutes) is optional and runs five mornings a week on Zoom. If you are on Tier 2 with private coaching, you also have up to 20 hours (Personal Track) or 30 hours (Couples Track) of one-to-one coaching across the year, scheduled flexibly around your life. It is designed to integrate into a full life, not take over it.
Yes. You can upgrade at any point during your Fellowship year. If you are on Tier 1 (Group Mentoring) and want to add private coaching, you can move to Tier 2 (Group Mentoring + Private Coaching). If you want to move from the Personal Track to the Couples Track, you can. If you are interested in the Private Fellowship with Christian (Tier 3), that is potentially available if Christian selects and invites you. Just reach out to the team and we will help you transition seamlessly.
Many Fellows re-enrol for a second year to deepen their practice. There's also the Heart iQ Academy for those who want to train as facilitators. Your community relationships and app access continue regardless. The connections you build here tend to last well beyond the programme.
Yes. The Heart iQ Mastery immersion, a seven-day residential retreat including accommodation and meals, is included in every Fellowship plan at no extra cost. You will attend either the Europe retreat (7-13 December 2026, Netherlands) or the US retreat (5-11 April 2027, The Hideaway, Colorado), depending on your location.
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Book a Discovery Call with Stephanie, our Head Trainer. She will talk with you about where you are, what you need, and whether the Fellowship is the right next step for you.
A booking fee applies, fully credited toward your enrolment or refunded. No pressure, just an honest conversation.
