A year-long mentorship journey for individuals and couples who are ready to integrate Heart iQ into the places it matters most — your relationship, your friendships, your family, your life.
Everything you need to make Heart iQ your daily reality.
"This work has been paramount in helping me find this amazing relationship. My experience in Heart iQ helped my nervous system recognise my partner when he showed up."
Sarah London, UK
"As guys, we don't know how to access our emotions. Heart iQ made it safe for me to go there — and it changed everything in my marriage."
Marc California, USA
"I started to dare to be 100% authentic again. I've done years of therapy — nothing touched what Heart iQ reached in just a few weeks."
Mascha Netherlands
Most personal development gives you a peak experience — a weekend, a retreat, a breakthrough moment. But the real work happens when you go home. When the insight meets the argument. When the openness meets the deadline. When the love meets the fear.
The Heart iQ Fellowship is a 12-month mentorship container designed for one purpose: to help you stay open in the places life tries to close you down. Your relationship. Your friendships. Your family. The moments that matter most — and the ones you've been avoiding.
This isn't another programme to learn about connection. It's a year of living it.
The Problem
You've had the insights. Maybe at a retreat, a workshop, or in therapy. But without a daily practice, a live community, and consistent mentorship — the old patterns quietly return. The openness closes. The connection drifts.
The Fellowship
A year-long mentorship container. Four live calls per month. Daily morning practice. A 7-day in-person retreat. Men's and women's circles. Couples coaching. Personal mentoring. The support to make depth your daily reality.
Whether you're new to Heart iQ or continuing a journey you've already begun — the Fellowship meets you where you are and walks with you for a full year.
You want to build a richer relationship with yourself — your emotions, your body, your friendships — so you can show up more fully for the love that's coming (and for the love that's already here).
You're committed to each other — and you're ready for structured support to stay open in the hard moments, communicate what's really going on, and build a partnership that grows rather than contracts over time.
You're craving the kind of friendships where you can actually be yourself — and you want a men's or women's circle, a real tribe, and a community that doesn't end when the retreat does.
The Fellowship is not a course — it's a living, breathing mentorship container with multiple live touchpoints every single week.
Monthly
A 90-minute emergent online circle with Christian Pankhurst. This is where we meet what's alive in the moment — presence, truth, collective process. A transpersonal space to put everything you're learning into practice using the Heart iQ circle work modality.
Monthly
Guided practice sessions with our most experienced facilitators, rotating through six core themes every six months — sexuality, boundaries, emotions, conflict and repair, nervous system regulation, and hunger for life. Led by the Fellowship faculty team.
Monthly
Dedicated spaces run by the men's team and women's team. Brother-to-brother and sister-to-sister support, gendered Heart iQ circle practice, and a space to explore what it means to build deep, lasting same-sex friendships and trust.
Monthly — Couples Tier
A dedicated monthly coaching space for couples in the Fellowship. Structured practice, live coaching, and the tools to keep your partnership growing. Available on the Couples Track and above.
5 Mornings Per Week
Start every day in your body. 20–45 minutes of guided embodiment practice delivered live over Zoom. This is the daily rhythm that makes everything else land — the somatic foundation of your year.
Always On
Your always-on home between circles. Connect with fellow members, share reflections, message each other directly, and ask questions of the faculty and Christian — all through the dedicated Heart iQ app. Includes community meetups, curated resources, and a Heart iQ-trained AI assistant to support your practice between sessions.
Every month in the Dojo, we go deep on a different relational theme. The cycle repeats twice per year — each time landing differently as you grow. Because you can join anytime, every theme is designed to stand alone.
Theme 01
Life force, desire, and the energy that moves between us when we stop shutting down and start staying present.
Theme 02
Reigniting passion, purpose, and the fierce aliveness that gets buried under obligation, stress, and survival mode.
Theme 03
Learning to say yes and no from a place of fullness — not from shutdown, people-pleasing, or fear of conflict.
Theme 04
Developing emotional fluency — the ability to feel fully, name what's happening, and express it in ways that deepen connection rather than rupture it.
Theme 05
Transforming conflict from something to avoid into something that deepens trust. Learning the art of rupture and repair in real time.
Theme 06
Understanding your nervous system patterns, learning to regulate under pressure, and making clear requests from a grounded place.
We live in a culture that celebrates romance but has quietly abandoned friendship. Most adults don't know how to make new friends, how to deepen the ones they have, or how to repair the ones they've lost.
Couples become each other's everything — and then wonder why the pressure becomes unbearable. Singles move from event to event hoping connection will stick, but rarely does.
The Fellowship doesn't just support your partnership — it surrounds you with a tribe. Men learning to show up for men. Women learning to trust women. Couples held by community, not isolated in a sealed dyad.
"At the end of our lives, the research is clear — it's not success we regret losing. It's the friendships we let go of along the way."
The Fellowship actively teaches you how to build and sustain real friendships — not as a side effect, but as a core skill:
The Fellowship Immersion
A seven-day residential immersion where everything you've been practising online comes alive in person.
Europe
Dec 7–14, 2026
Netherlands
United States
Apr 5–11, 2027
The Hideaway, Colorado
Accommodation and meals included · No hidden costs
Every plan includes all core calls, daily morning practice, the Heart iQ Mastery immersion, the Fellowship Hub, and your Accelerated Awakening discount.
🎁 Founding Member Pricing — accommodation & meals included in your immersion at no extra cost.
Valued at €7,500
€5,000
or €500/month for 12 months
Valued at €12,000
€8,500
or €750/month for 12 months
Add Private Mentoring to Your Fellowship
Dedicated one-to-one sessions with a senior Heart iQ mentor. Limited places — application-based.
Personal Fellowship Track + Mentoring
€8,500
or €750/month for 12 months
Includes everything in the Personal Fellowship Track plus dedicated one-to-one mentoring with a senior Heart iQ mentor.
Couples Fellowship Track + Mentoring
€12,000
or €1,100/month for 12 months
Includes everything in the Couples Fellowship Track plus individual personal mentoring and dedicated couples coaching — three hours per month of one-to-one support.
For couples who want the deepest level of support — direct, private mentoring with Christian Pankhurst alongside the full Fellowship experience.
€20,000
or €1,900/month for 12 months
That's exactly what the Discovery Call is for. You'll speak with a member of our Fellowship team who will help you find the right fit — no pressure, no hard sell. Just an honest conversation about where you are and what would genuinely serve you.
Book a Discovery CallIf you've completed the Heart iQ 90-Day Challenge, you already know what's possible. The Fellowship is where that breakthrough becomes a way of life — with deeper access, more personal support, and a full year of practice.
New to Heart iQ? The 90-Day Challenge is the perfect starting point — it gives you a real experience of the work, the community, and the tools before committing to a full year. Many of our Fellowship members started there.
Learn About the 90-Day Challenge →| 90-Day Challenge | Personal Fellowship | Couples Fellowship | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Duration | 3 months | 12 months | 12 months |
| Accelerated Awakening Circle (Christian) | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Heart iQ Dojo (Faculty-Led) | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Men's & Women's Circles | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| Couples Connection Ritual | — | — | ✓ |
| Daily Morning Practice | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| 3-Day Virtual Retreat | ✓ | — | — |
| Heart iQ Mastery Immersion | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| Accelerated Awakening — 50% Off | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| Fellowship Hub & Heart iQ App | 3 months | 12 months | 12 months |
| Personal Mentoring (Optional) | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| Couples Coaching (Optional) | — | — | ✓ |
The Fellowship is not a one-person show. It's an ecosystem of experienced facilitators who bring different gifts, perspectives, and lived wisdom to your year.
Founder & Core Faculty
Creator of Heart iQ. Leads the Accelerated Awakening Circle, co-leads Couples Connection Ritual, and serves as private mentor for Tier 3 Fellows. 25+ years of work in relational intelligence and embodied transformation.
Fellowship Architect & Lead Faculty
One of the first Heart iQ graduates in 2012. Designs and leads the Dojo practice sessions, leads the Women's Circle, and co-facilitates the Couples Connection Ritual. Three decades of study in somatic healing and relational development.
Men's Faculty
Lead the Men's Circle and co-design the men's 12-week circle arc. They bring a grounded, embodied presence to the men's work — creating a space where men learn to show up for each other with vulnerability and strength.
Women's Faculty
Co-leads the Women's Circle with Stephanie and brings a refined, visionary quality to the women's space. Her presence supports women in exploring trust — with themselves, their bodies, other women, and life itself.
No. The Fellowship is open to anyone who feels ready for a year-long commitment to relational growth and embodied practice. Some Fellows come through the 90-Day Challenge first, which gives you a taste of the core practices — but it's not a requirement. The Fellowship meets you where you are.
The Fellowship runs on open enrolment — you can join anytime. Your 12-month journey begins from the day you enrol, and you immediately gain access to all calls, morning practice, and community. Your year includes the next eligible Heart iQ Mastery immersion.
Typically four per month: one Accelerated Awakening Circle with Christian (monthly on Tuesdays), one Heart iQ Dojo with faculty (monthly on Tuesdays), one Men's or Women's Circle, and — for couples — one Couples Connection Ritual. Plus daily morning practice five mornings a week on Zoom.
The Accelerated Awakening Circle and Heart iQ Dojo are both held monthly on Tuesdays, 19:00–20:30 CET (90 minutes, occasionally extending to 2 hours). This is designed to be accessible across European, UK, and US time zones. Men's and Women's Circles are monthly. Couples Connection Ritual is monthly.
Absolutely — the Personal Fellowship is designed specifically for individuals. You'll participate in all core calls, the Dojo, your gendered circle, daily practice, and the Heart iQ Mastery immersion. The Couples tier adds the Couples Connection Ritual and partner-specific support, but the personal path is complete and powerful on its own.
Heart iQ Mastery is a seven-day residential immersion held in Europe (December 2026, Netherlands) and the US (April 2027, The Hideaway, Colorado). It includes relational practice, brotherhood and sisterhood work, embodiment, collective circle work, and depth. Accommodation and meals are included — this is where everything you've been practising online comes alive in person.
The Fellowship is about life integration — applying Heart iQ to your relationships, friendships, and daily life. The Academy is the professional training track for people who want to become Heart iQ facilitators. They run in parallel, not sequentially, and serve different purposes. Some people do both.
Mentoring adds monthly 1:1 sessions with a senior Heart iQ mentor, WhatsApp access to your mentor (within clear boundaries), and — for couples — dedicated couples coaching sessions. The Private Fellowship with Christian includes direct mentoring from Christian himself. Mentoring places are limited and application-based. Your Discovery Call will help you determine which option is right for you.
That's exactly what the Discovery Call is for. You'll speak with a member of our Fellowship team who knows the programme intimately. They'll help you find the right fit based on where you are, what you need, and what feels like the right stretch — not the right overwhelm. No pressure, no hard sell.
Yes. Every plan offers a 12-month payment option. For example, the Personal Track is €5,000 paid in full or €500/month for 12 months. The Couples Track is €8,500 paid in full or €750/month. Exact details for mentoring tiers will be shared on your Discovery Call.
Book a free Discovery Call with a member of the Fellowship team. We'll talk about where you are, what you need, and whether the Fellowship is the right next step for you.
No commitment. No pressure. Just an honest conversation.
